3-year-old girl

Name Unknown.
Died: February 10, 2018.
Age at death: 3.
Cause of death: Murder (Suffocated).
Location: Dublin, Ireland.

Details:
When this toddler girl attended a Montessori school, and the principal noticed that her behavior was different and told her mother that she ought to have an assessment. At the assessment, she was given a diagnosis of borderline-to-mild autism, but her mother was convinced that she had severe autism with pathological demand avoidance. She thought her daughter would never get the right services and it would ruin her other child’s life.

Her mother suffocated her with a Minnie Mouse pillow; she died three days later in the hospital.

References:
Mother who smothered autistic daughter committed to Central Mental Hospital after bed made available
Woman who smothered her daughter was suffering from severe depression with psychotic features, court hears
Woman found not guilty of murder by reason of insanity
Mother smothered girl (3) after autism diagnosis, court told
Mother smothered toddler daughter with Minnie Mouse pillow as she called out for her father, court told
Mother accused of child’s murder was ‘overwhelmed’
Mother who admits suffocating her three-year-old daughter was ‘obsessed’ over autism, court hears
Mother not guilty of murder by reason of insanity

Mother who admits suffocating girl (3) ‘obsessed’ over autism, court told
Mother accused of child’s murder ‘obsessed’ over autism

Omar Omran

Name: Omar Omran.
Died: July 10, 2017.
Age at death: 3.
Cause of death: Murder (Stabbed).
Location: Kimmage, Dublin, Ireland.

Details:
Omar’s father remembers him as an intelligent boy who had never met a stranger. When anyone said “Hello” to him, Omar would say “hello” back. Omar loved the neighbors’ dogs. The neighbors remember his big brown eyes and his lively chatter.

His mother was a doctor from Iraq who had moved to England around the time Omar was born. His father, separated from his mother, still lived in Iraq.

Omar was stabbed to death by his mother.

Neighbors left flowers, notes, and toys outside his apartment building. One neighbor’s note says that Omar used to throw his toys over his balcony, and his neighbor used to bring them back to him. Another note said simply, “Why???? R.I.P”.

Omar’s mother had been depressed because of the autism diagnosis. She admitted to stabbing the boy, but claimed rather vaguely that “it was not me, it was the power.” At trial, she was declared not guilty by reason of insanity and hospitalized.

References:
Mother of boy stabbed to death in Dublin is Iraqi doctor
Doctor arrested after son, 3, is found stabbed to death
Boy (3) killed in Kimmage ‘not a stranger to anyone’, says father
Mum accused of killing autistic son told police ‘it was my knife’
Doctor is held over fatal stabbing of autistic son, 3
Doctor ‘arrested after her autistic toddler is stabbed to death in their flat’
Mum arrested over toddler son found dead with stab wounds in apartment
Detectives investigating fatal stabbing of toddler (3) arrest woman
Stab victim Omar (3) laid to rest after ‘final kiss’ from father
Heartbroken father of stabbed Irish tot kisses him goodbye as he is laid to rest
Tearful Father Of Omar Omran Lays Stabbed Son To Rest
Doctor accused of murdering son was ‘amazing’ mother, neighbour tells court
Doctor who stabbed her son (3) to death in their south Dublin home found not guilty of his murder
Doctor found not guilty of murdering son (3) by reason of insanity

Tristan Neiland

Photo of Tristan Neiland, a young child wearing pink flowered sunglasses. He has curly brown hair and fair skin.Name: Tristan Neiland.
Died: January 4, 2013.
Age at death: 6.
Cause of death: Medical neglect (Oxygen monitoring equipment not used).
Location: Dublin, Ireland.

Details:
Tristan’s parents describe him as healthy, happy boy who liked to run and play with his siblings.

Tristan had multiple disabilities, including epilepsy. He needed an oxygen monitor while he slept, and he was supposed to be checked on every fifteen minutes to make sure that he hadn’t kicked off the oxygen monitor.

Tristan died while he was in respite care. He was supposed to stay for the weekend, and his mother had given the center his oxygen monitor to attach to his big toe. But the respite center staff didn’t use the oxygen monitor, and so when Tristan had a seizure and stopped breathing, no one was there to help.

References:
‘Tristan (7) left our house running and laughing and he came home lifeless’
Mother says boy died unnoticed, alone in respite care
Respite service apologise to parents of boy (6) who died in care
St John of God Community issue apology following death of boy, aged 6, in respite care
Mother of boy who died in respite care: ‘Our lives will never be the same’
Dublin respite service apologises to family over death of 6-year-old boy
Parents appeal for vigilance following death of son, 6, in respite care
Death Notice Of Tristan NEILAND, Dublin 18, Dublin, Ireland
Mum Receives Apology After Son, 6, Died In Respite Care
Augustus Cullen Law secure substantial settlement for death of child in respite home – Augustus Cullen Law Solicitors – Leading Irish Law Firm Since 1887
Couple whose son died after falling unconscious in respite care receive apology in settlement
Mum whose son died in care hopes his death made services ‘a safer place’
Inquest begins into death of child in respite care
Tristan’s (6) death in care not in vain, says mother
‘I miss him. Every single day’: Inquest held into death of six-year-old boy in respite care
Centre where Tristan Neiland died no longer takes ‘high medical needs’ kids